If guys think that girls are hard to comprehend, girls think so vice versa, too! Guys give meaning to everything, from you not calling on time to the way you talk at times. Whether you like it or not, serious guys entering into a relationship are very paranoid. They would want to make sure that they do everything right and they don’t mess this chance they have with a girl they like.

So, how do you avoid sending a wrong message? In reality, the place you live says a lot about what you really are. If a picture paints a thousand words and a video a means million thoughts, how would a “live” event seem? If a guy sees your place and he sees…

Red and Black furniture accent
As we all know, red is regarded as a hot and warm color. Also symbolizes aggression and high energy. In the western world, it is the symbol of love and passion. On the other hand, the color black is actually not a color. It is the absence of color. It is a mysterious and a color that is full of suspense. When both colors matched together, this will make a guy feel that the girl is seductive, hot and sexy. This can also be compared to her underwear colors where black and red are the sexiest ones. Guys fantasies are unlimited.

Disorganized flat
This might turn him off as he may regard you as a happy-go-lucky person. One who isn’t ready to face life seriously and it may lead to the guy thinking the girl is not serious. Think about it, would you leave your flat messed up knowing that a special visitor will stop by? I guess not.

Collection
Girls love them. Not just shoes, but bags, accessories, shirts, wallets, everything! But, do you know that if a guy saw your huge collection of shoes or bags, he would back-off a bit? Unless he is a filthy rich guy who can compensate your splurges, he will stop and think for awhile if he can handle that kind of situation in the future.

Your boy best friend
This is a no-no. Letting your boy best friend hang around your flat often is a bad idea, believe me. This is just the same as talking with him about your ex-boyfriend. It is also the same as listening to your guy best friend’s advice over his advice. The point here is, give importance and priority to him over anyone else. He would notice this and will appreciate it.

Animals and creatures
This will show him that you are not a kind of girl who over reacts when seeing a small mouse. This means, the girl is the girl-next-door type who isn’t afraid of doing anything menial like cleaning the bathroom. Having dogs or cats around means, you are responsible enough to feed, take care and clean them. Just make sure it is not insects that you are taking care of. Now that is a turn off.

Paper works everywhere
This might send two different signals to a guy. First, he might regard you as a workaholic. That is not good because he might think that you would be too busy for him next time, both of you would have a gap and thus, resulting to a dysfunctional relationship. On the other hand, he might regard you as a very responsible type of woman who can handle responsibility at it’s best. Just make sure, that being responsible comes with a great sense of time management.

So, if the guy you’re eyeing to be with for the rest of your life comes over, be sure to leave everything in order. They say that the fastest way to a man’s heart is his stomach? Not all the time. Even if you do not know how to cook but, you are a simple yet brilliant, organized person, he will love you anyway.

Have you ever wondered why is it that when a man has another partner, it is ok but when a woman does the same, she would be viewed as a lusty girl synonymous with a prostitute? They both should be treated equal and as designed by God, we are to be monogamous.

A lawyer in Texas gets an emergency call from a Los Angeles client that requires him to go there immediately. He doesn’t even have time to fix his things and go home so, he just calls home to inform his wife about the trip.

The maid was hesitant in putting his wife on the phone but after a few threats and interrogation, she admitted that her wife was upstairs, doing some deeds with the mail man. As much as he wants to furiously rush home, he had to go somewhere. So, he just informed the maid to get his gun in a secret drawer and kill them both.

The maid of course, protested but, after explaining the laws in texas that it is legal to kill someone who commits adultery, the maid killed the two secret lovers.

The maid comes back to the phone. The lawyer asked, “Did you kill them?”

“Yes”, was the reply of the maid. The lawyer asked a follow up question.
“What did you do with the bodies?”
“I threw them in the pool”, was the maids response.

After a long pause from the lawyer, he asked, “Did you say the pool?”

“Yes! I threw them in the pool!”, she said.

“Uh, is this 900-4876?”

If you are the girl, then, below are 3 tactics on how to get back to your man and release the EVIL in you.

Common fund a cool idea, huh?

How lovely. Interior with a red accent…

That is one sick, I mean, full of stick car!

Have you heard of Fergie’s song? Big girls don’t cry? It talked about a break-up and she was convincing herself not to try despite the unfortunate event. Usually, the girl is hurt most during a break-up. But do you know, that some guys cry too? In Britain, British men may be sterling examples of masculinity but that does not prevent more than half of them from crying their eyes out after being dumped, according to a survey.

In our society, males are seen as the steel type - hard, strong and courageous, when in fact, when a guy cries in front of a girl, it is a good sign. It simply means that the guy can let go of his feelings and is using that as an outlet compared to a guy who doesn’t, beware! According to a study, men who can’t express their feelings by crying tend to express their feelings through anger. So you see, men who cry aren’t sissies or gays. They are stronger than those men who don’t cry.

Is that the only way to make them cry? Guess not! Girls, are you feeling a bit naughty?

1. Dump Them - If you don’t love your guy anymore, dump them. If they love you, they will cry. If they don’t, lucky you, you did the right thing.

2. Reverse Psychology- use this until it irritates them so much, they will want to cry! Try telling them, “You don’t love me anymore” lines and wait until they get irritated. If the guy gets angry, he is the “man of steel” type who uses anger as an outlet.

3. Defeat - Lose your ego and you forget your stand. Have you seen crucial basketball games? When the team losses, some cry. I have seen them with my own eyes.

Just remember, a guys feeling is not there to be played, so are girls’ feelings. So, if you don’t want others to let you cry, do not do it to others. Can you find a better way to let boys cry than these?