If guys think that girls are hard to comprehend, girls think so vice versa, too! Guys give meaning to everything, from you not calling on time to the way you talk at times. Whether you like it or not, serious guys entering into a relationship are very paranoid. They would want to make sure that they do everything right and they don’t mess this chance they have with a girl they like.

So, how do you avoid sending a wrong message? In reality, the place you live says a lot about what you really are. If a picture paints a thousand words and a video a means million thoughts, how would a “live” event seem? If a guy sees your place and he sees…

Red and Black furniture accent
As we all know, red is regarded as a hot and warm color. Also symbolizes aggression and high energy. In the western world, it is the symbol of love and passion. On the other hand, the color black is actually not a color. It is the absence of color. It is a mysterious and a color that is full of suspense. When both colors matched together, this will make a guy feel that the girl is seductive, hot and sexy. This can also be compared to her underwear colors where black and red are the sexiest ones. Guys fantasies are unlimited.

Disorganized flat
This might turn him off as he may regard you as a happy-go-lucky person. One who isn’t ready to face life seriously and it may lead to the guy thinking the girl is not serious. Think about it, would you leave your flat messed up knowing that a special visitor will stop by? I guess not.

Collection
Girls love them. Not just shoes, but bags, accessories, shirts, wallets, everything! But, do you know that if a guy saw your huge collection of shoes or bags, he would back-off a bit? Unless he is a filthy rich guy who can compensate your splurges, he will stop and think for awhile if he can handle that kind of situation in the future.

Your boy best friend
This is a no-no. Letting your boy best friend hang around your flat often is a bad idea, believe me. This is just the same as talking with him about your ex-boyfriend. It is also the same as listening to your guy best friend’s advice over his advice. The point here is, give importance and priority to him over anyone else. He would notice this and will appreciate it.

Animals and creatures
This will show him that you are not a kind of girl who over reacts when seeing a small mouse. This means, the girl is the girl-next-door type who isn’t afraid of doing anything menial like cleaning the bathroom. Having dogs or cats around means, you are responsible enough to feed, take care and clean them. Just make sure it is not insects that you are taking care of. Now that is a turn off.

Paper works everywhere
This might send two different signals to a guy. First, he might regard you as a workaholic. That is not good because he might think that you would be too busy for him next time, both of you would have a gap and thus, resulting to a dysfunctional relationship. On the other hand, he might regard you as a very responsible type of woman who can handle responsibility at it’s best. Just make sure, that being responsible comes with a great sense of time management.

So, if the guy you’re eyeing to be with for the rest of your life comes over, be sure to leave everything in order. They say that the fastest way to a man’s heart is his stomach? Not all the time. Even if you do not know how to cook but, you are a simple yet brilliant, organized person, he will love you anyway.