I got a good a laugh when I read this news clip that men fake the O word. It is a known fact that only few women, studies show only 20% of women reach the O stage. But for men? This is something new to the mainstream, although a lot of my girl friends admit during dinner that they felt that their men are just posers in bed in terms of letting it all out. But it wasn’t given much thought but now, it is!

Achieving this much-sought O moment can not be determined even if a woman is in bed with the hottest actor around, right girls? Well, it adds up the thrill but achieving this euphoria is a two-way action. The article went to say that antidepressants affects how men “work” to achieve it and women tend to be achieve it less during the actual intercourse. And the reason isn’t only physiological, but the mind plays a factor as well. Just like us, men also feel the pressure to let it out because they have to or else they aren’t that good.

Then we all get used to faking it and never really realizing how much it feels good to achieve that phenomenon. Bottom line, we all at some time fake it, pretend to have reached that peak because we want our partners to feel satisfied. Talk about sacrificing. I am not going to dwell how to achieve it as I am not a sex expert, but I think just like any other life situation, we need to shake off the pressure so that we can focus on getting there. That ’s easier said than done, but then, it can’t be achieved unless we work on it.